How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.

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That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Have you ever been instructed/forced to crossdress for the benefit of others?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How much should one budget to travel for 1 month generally?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How good do you sing and how do you know this?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.